20 Etiquette Lessons Every Child Needs to Know
- Mrs. Leverette
- May 22, 2017
- 2 min read
Recently, I came across an excellent list by Myka Meier, the founder of Beaumont Etiquette, in an article written by Caroline Halleman for Town & Country Magazine.
Here is her list of top 20 etiquette lessons:
The true meaning of etiquette is always to show respect and kindness to everyone around you.
Use please, thank you, and excuse me every day.
How to hold your silverware correctly.
How to properly use a napkin to wipe your mouth. (No sleeves!)
How to chew with your mouth closed.
No elbows on the table…ever!
Never interrupt an adult when they are speaking to someone else.
Never comment on someone’s appearance unless it’s to say something nice.
How to give a compliment to someone else.
How to write a thank you letter.
You must always help someone in need, particularly if they are less able than you are.
How to introduce yourself and others properly.
Be aware of positive body language and how to show it.
Never to call an adult by their first name unless the adult instructs them to do so.
Always knock on a door before opening it.
How to answer a phone politely.
How to make eye contact when speaking to another person.
Don’t point or stare.
Always cover your mouth when sneezing or coughing.
How to invite someone to join a group if they are alone.
I would like to add on more- 21. When an adult you know greets you, reply in kind.
It is entirely possible and appropriate for every seven (7) year old in the United States of America to have mastered each of these common courtesies and etiquette skills. Our communities and schools would run so much more smoothly if everyone made an effort to help children learn and practice these lessons.
On some level, most american adults appreciate and expect this behavior at minimum. If you're late getting started, there's no time like the present to get on board and begin practicing at every opportunity until they become habits.
A special message to the adults with children in their care, please model these lessons for your children and prompt them if forgotten whenever possible. Thank you!
Sincerely,
Mrs. Leverette
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